Jeff K wrote:
How did sun assembly do gender free where you didn't need to find a
partner?

At Durham, N.C. Sun Assembly dances folks sometimes just line up and someone will join you as your partner. It's also fine to ask someone specfically to dance. It's a smallish, casual group and this seems to work just fine. Not sure how it would work with a larger group. 

Bree Kalb
Carrboro NC